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Group work with former cultists
Lorna Goldberg and William Goldberg
The authors
co-lead a therapeutic
group for former members of religious cults. In this article they describe the purposes
and structure of this group, delineate three stages of the "Post Mind Control"
syndrome, and suggest interventive techniques appropriate to each of these stages.
The techniques of sensory
bombardment, sleep deprivation, and manipulation are used by many cults as a means of
inducing a "forced conversion." From
their work with ex-cultists, the authors have found all these techniques operating in
cults. However, it is not the purpose of this article to explain the methods used to
induce suggestibility. Instead, this article
focuses on a treatment method that the authors have used in helping former cultists. Writers who have acknowledged the cultic state to
be one of induced pathology, or mind control, generally point to the impotence of mental
health professionals when confronted by this state. Schwartz
and Isser, referring to the state of mind control as an "involuntary
conversion," reported that neither conventional traditional techniques nor platitudes
appear to be appropriate for helping cult recruits or their families weather the storms
that involuntary conversions arouse. And dark
of the Harvard Medical School commented that [mental health professionals] are relatively
helpless to restore thinking processes [for cult victims] because, under the current
interpretation of the laws, we cannot maintain physical control long enough to bring about
the confrontation therapies which might be effective in reestablishing the original
personality style in the way it was done with the Korean War prisoners. The authors (hereafter referred to as group
leaders) have also found that their professional skills could only be of limited help
during the acute phase of mind control and during the phase of reality-inducing therapy (or
"deprogramming"). They can offer helpful intervention, however, during the
"Post Mind Control" phase, when the victim is attempting to put his or her cult
experiences into perspective. The small
support group described in this article, which was formed in River Edge, New Jersey, a
suburb ten miles from New York City, proved to be an excellent medium for helping
deprogrammed individuals to accomplish this end.
This group serves as a
mechanism for bridging the gap between cult life and the outside world. It is now entering
its fifth year of regular meetings. The group
provides the ex-cultists an opportunity to discuss their cult involvement in a
nonjudgmental, supportive atmosphere. Cult life has rarely been shared by friends and
family members. Ex-cultists, therefore, find themselves alone when attempting to come to
grips with their experiences in the cult, including cult seduction, entrance into a state
of altered consciousness, life in the "totalistic" atmosphere (that is, action,
thought, and experience must relate to the "mission"), the decision to leave the
cult, and the struggle to resume self-determination.
Through the support group's process, the ex-cultists recognize that their
circumstances are not unique and that a reference group can smooth the difficult
transition from cult life to life in the outside world. The reference group encourages
emotional growth and independence in contrast to the regression and repression reinforced
in the cult. The entire group meets monthly,
although smaller, less formal groups meet as the need arises. Meetings last for two and
one-half to three hours and have consisted of as few as six individuals and as many as
twenty-five. The typical pattern is for group members to attend two or three meetings
immediately after their decision to leave the cult and to attend subsequent meetings
occasionally. Although the cults use the group process to increase dependence in their
members, one of the purposes of the support group is to encourage a sense of autonomy.
Therefore, members are free to attend as many or few group meetings as they desire. A core
of members who live in the New York metropolitan area attend almost every meeting.
Approximately two hundred individuals, aged 17-36, representing fourteen
different cults, have become involved in the group. The
meetings begin with a restatement of the group contract, which specifies that the group is
limited to former cult members and that its purpose is to enable members to talk about
their experiences as ex-cultists. It is not the purpose of this group to take political,
social, or educational stands regarding cults. Within the context of the meetings, such
discussions are considered resistance to the sharing of feelings.
Another important aspect of the
contract with the group is the assessment of each group member to insure that he or she
has indeed decided to leave the cult. Enforcement of this policy is necessary for several
reasons. One of the purposes of the group is
for the ex-cultists to be given the opportunity to share their feelings. Before this rule
was instituted, when the group leaders accepted word-of-mouth
referrals, the meetings would occasionally be attended by an individual who
had not yet recognized the manipulation to which he or she had been subjected, that is,
who still interpreted the entry into a state of altered consciousness as "Divine
Intervention" rather than as a
predictable response to group pressure,
environmental bombardment, and heightened suggestibility.
This new member would interrupt the group's discussion of the aftereffects
of these phenomena and argue that his or her cult did not use these forms of manipulation
or that the cult used them only in the service of the Lord. After this assertion, the
other group members would shift their focus to a discussion of the new member's cult in an
attempt to clarify the process of manipulation. Although
this discussion would be enlightening to the new member and although the provocative
statements were often made in an attempt to solicit these arguments, this shifting of
focus would prevent the other group members from grappling with their own problems and
concerns. Furthermore, the presence of an
individual who still exhibited the symptoms of mind control aroused the anxiety of the
other group members. In particular, those individuals still in the First stage of the Post
Mind Control syndrome would become excessively anxious because of their own fears of
slipping back into .the state of altered consciousness. Initially, the presence of a
non-deprogrammed individual in the group inhibited others who had left that cult from
expressing their anxieties or fears. Cults
and cultists often do not feel themselves bound by rules of confidentiality when measured
against their "mission." Because the process of inducing mind control includes a
sophisticated exploitation of an individual's emotional needs, to permit someone who may
return to the cult to have knowledge of one's vulnerabilities could be self-destructive. For all
these reasons, the group leaders have found it best to assure the group that they have
assessed all fellow group members.
Ex-cultists will often try to get in
touch with others who have decided to leave. They will suggest that the individuals call
the group leaders for an assessment interview. Most
deprogrammings are conducted by several former cultists, and there is a good chance that
at least one member of the deprogramming team has been a member of the support group or is
aware of the group. Most referrals, therefore, are from other group members or
deprogrammers. The group leaders have also, on occasion, received referrals from
colleagues who have heard of their work in this area.
ASSESSMENT INTERVIEW
In the assessment interview, the
main goal is to measure the degree of the individual's freedom from mind control. Some of
the symptoms in individuals who are under mind control include a stiff, wooden response to
emotionally charged situations; a general lack of ability to think in reality-oriented
terms, that is, every thought, decision, and action has a cosmic significance; an
overwhelming sense of guilt when entertaining thoughts considered "negative" by
the cult; and a need to use the "thought terminating cliché" when confronted
with any information that does not fit into a simplistic black-and-white view of
reality." Specifically, the group
leaders ask interviewees how the cult appealed to them, why they stayed in the cult, and
what prompted their decision to leave. They
are concerned about individuals who show no evidence of inner struggle, who describe the
deprogramming in a matter-of-fact manner (for example, "the deprogrammer told me I
had been deceived. What he said made sense to me so I decided to leave."), or who see
the cult, during this assessment stage, as completely bad. The decision to abandon a group
with which one has established an absolute identification is not made so easily. There is
usually a sense of loss and confusion coupled with a restorative desire to learn more
about the state of mind control and its initiation. Furthermore, an individual who
"snaps," or shifts, from total love to total hate might still be exhibiting a
characteristic of mind control. To assess the
ability of interviewees to deal with objective, concrete reality, the group leaders ask
them about their plans for the future. A relatively symptom-free response would be similar
to that of Fran L, who had left college to join a cult: I'm not sure exactly what I want
to do now. I know that I want to help people in some way but I don't know how. Ill
probably return to school full time. Maybe Ill take a couple of courses at the local
college next semester. Then Ill make up
my mind. Individuals who respond to the
preceding question in global, grandiose terms and who imply that they have infinite
abilities and have boundless faith in their skills continue to exhibit a symptom of mind
control, as the following example shows: Joseph L, who was briefly involved with a
cult modeled after Eastern religions, spoke of his intention to "explore other
avenues of higher consciousness" and named several mass fad therapies that he
intended to try out. He said, "I know there's an answer, and I will devote the rest
of my life to finding it." As a means of
assessing the degree of the interviewee's guilt on leaving the cult, the group leaders ask
the interviewee what his or her response would be to meeting a member of the cult on the
street. An answer similar to, "I would be ashamed" or "I would rush up to
him to tell him that I'm still a good person even though I've left," indicates a
continuation of cultic thought reform. The
interviewee continues to permit the cult to define standards of proper and improper
conduct. An answer similar to, Id
feel sorry for him" or "I would want to rush up to him to talk him into
leaving," indicates that the interviewee has abandoned the cultic reference points. Finally, it is important to mention that not every
individual involved with a cult displays symptoms that stem only from mind control. People
who exhibit severe emotional pathology may yearn for the cult's rigid controls as a means
of providing structure for their lives. These individuals, for the most part, do not
remain in the cult because of the state of mind control but because they require a strict
behavioral pattern that they can follow. Therefore, the adoption of the cult life as their
framework was a restitutive attempt. These
individuals are not accepted into the group; instead, individual psychotherapy is
recommended as the treatment of choice. Their prognosis for remaining out of the cult is
fair. However, the cults themselves often
expel their deviant (and financially unproductive) members: Stewart B, a 21-year-old man
with a cyclical manic depressive disorder, was expelled from his cult. One of this cult's
practices is the receipt of messages from God that come in the form of visions. Stewart
received a vision that told him that he was destined to marry the cult leader's daughter. He was expelled after breaking into her bedroom
late one night. Although he has spoken with several deprogrammers, Stewart is troubled by
recurrent obsessive thoughts about the cult. He cannot determine whether his vision was
inspired by God or Satan. There is a small
group of people who can leave the cult on their own, that is, without participating in a
deprogramming process after they leave the cult. After
having accepted the cult life for several years, they find that the cultic atmosphere no
longer meets their needs. These individuals usually have attained leadership status and
have, in effect, become the controllers. Therefore, they are able to use their minds and
are able to see what they label as the hypocrisy of the cult. In the group leaders'
experience, those people who struggle to regain their precult thought processes without
undergoing deprogramming are more prone to feelings of extreme guilt and confusion after
leaving their cult. Because they were leaders, they did not experience the humiliation of
passivity and degradation as severely as other ex-cultists, and they tended not to loathe
the experience as much as others. They, therefore, take longer to disavow the experience.'
The irony, then, is that although these individuals are healthy enough to grow out of the
cult's control, it takes them longer than those who have undergone deprogramming to
integrate the cult experience with their life in the outside world.
RECOVERY PROCESS
The recovery process is viewed as a
"Post Mind Control" syndrome. The group leaders have found that members of the
group pass through three stages after their
deprogramming and that they manifest specific
behavioral characteristics within each stage. As such, each stage requires a different
treatment focus.
Stage
1: Initial Postdeprogramming
This stage commences with the
completion of deprogramming and usually
lasts from six to eight weeks. Although the ex-cult members begin to sever their emotional
bonds to their cults during this stage, residues of the imposed personality remain stamped
on them. When they entered the cult, they were forced to abandon old emotional ties (to
their family), and their personality took on a new cast as the cult leader became the
identified "parent." Their physical demeanor often bespeaks their cult. For
example, individuals who were in cults that focus on subservience to the spiritual leader
keep their heads bowed and speak in a quiet, meek manner. Women who were in cults that
emphasize sexuality as a lure for new members are seductive. And those who were in cults that emphasize contact
with spirits through constant meditation appear to be "other worldly." Almost all the ex-cultists appear to be much
younger than their chronological age and display an asexual innocence. They act childlike
although they may be well into their twenties. Indeed, during their time in the cult women
often stop menstruating and men's beards grow more slowly.
During the initial postdeprogramming stage the ex-cultists regain their
secondary sexual characteristics. During this
stage, group members focus on the effect that their life in the cult has had on their
cognitive abilities. Those who remained in
cults for many years and did not achieve a leadership position experienced what initially
appears to be a diminished ability in the areas of perception, decision making,
discrimination, judgment, memory, and speech. The ex-cult member's cognitive abilities
have been repressed because the cults encourage and reinforce passivity, conformity to the
cult, and following by rote. The following case demonstrates this point: Edward C, a graduate from an Ivy League
university, was a member of a cult for two years. After leaving the cult, he was unable to
read a newspaper for several months. His inability to focus his mind provoked anxiety,
which made him withdraw by falling asleep whenever he tried to read. Speech during this first stage is monotonous,
colorless, and halting. Emotionally charged words have taken on new meaning or have fallen
away completely. Because the cult forces its members to follow passively the will of their
leaders, ex-cult members often have difficulty making decisions for themselves, as the
following example demonstrates: Sara P, a
26-year-old woman who had lived for six months in a communal cult, described her initial
inability to make decisions. When she went to a restaurant with her family and her
deprogrammer, she stared at the menu for several minutes and asked each person around the
table what they thought she should order. When
they did not give her direction, she began to cry. Cults
adversely affect their members' ability to judge situations. Most of the cults teach that
life is controlled by other-worldly forces, thus further encouraging passivity. The memory
of cultists fades, particularly with respect to their "physical" families. Cultists often acquire new names and new
birthdays to parallel their new identities and learn a cliché-ridden language. In group meetings the fears of ex-cult members,
especially the fear of returning to a trancelike state, are discussed. This condition,
called "floating," appears to be a conditioned response. In the cults, the
nerves of members were constantly on edge because of the need to insure that their
perceptions did not conflict with the cult's doctrine. They were often in a state of
altered consciousness that was similar to a trance. By hearing a key word, a phrase, or a
song, the ex-cultists may suddenly reenter the state of altered consciousness. Clark
reported that it is regularly observed that for some time after the deprogramming affected
individuals are very vulnerable. For about a year and especially during the first few
weeks to two months they feel themselves aware of or close to two different mental worlds.
Their strong impulses to return to the cult are controlled by logical reasoning processes
and the great fear of someone taking control of their minds from the outside once again.
During this time a former convert can quickly be recaptured either by a fleeting impulse
or by entering a trance state through a key word or piece of music or by chanting or by a
team from the cult. Singer observed that
floating can be helped by speaking simply, clearly, and directly to the individual. This
method of communication stands in contrast to the cults' use of global and abstract
language. By focusing on concrete here-and-now realities, the ex-cultist can be helped to
stop the sense of depersonalization that takes place during the floating episode. Former cultists who have left cults that imbued
everyday objects with symbolic overtones are particularly prone to floating. The degree of
floating also appears to be connected with the ego strength of the individual. Those
people who feel themselves powerless and controlled by outside forces are more likely to
float than those who feel strong enough to resist pressure to return to the cult
environment. Guilt plays a major role in the
initial reentry stage. In the cult, members are generally taught that the outside world is
an evil whirlpool seeking to suck them into the sins of worldly pleasure. The only place they are safe is within the
confines of the cult. They are often told "horror stories" of the terrible
things that befall people who leave the cult: In
a group meeting, Bobbie U, who was a member of a cult for three years, told of hearing
stories about Sam J when he left the cult. She turned to Sam (who was her deprogrammer and
who was attending the meeting) and said, "I was told that you were a debaucher and
that you were taking pills and alcohol. I was told that you were sleeping in flophouses
and had completely abandoned God. During this
stage, former cultists often feel overwhelmed by guilt without always understanding why
they feel guilty. At times, their behavior is a manifestation of guilt. For example, Fran
L, who was a member of a cult for a one-year period, would wake up in the middle of the
night for several weeks after her deprogramming and feel the need to scrub the kitchen
floor on her hands and knees. She could not
explain why she felt it necessary to perform this act.
Other individuals fear punishment for leaving the cult. For example, they
fear that the airplane they will ride in will crash or that their parents will be hit by
cars. Nightmares are not unusual during the first few months after leaving the cult. The ex-cult members are also filled with
self-doubt during the first stage. What they
thought was the "most correct" decision in their lives (that is. the decision to
join the cult) proved to be a tragic mistake. They
fear what will happen as they make other life decisions, sometimes projecting their fears
onto others: Betty J, who was a member of a cult for one year, described her fears about
her parents. "Im glad they decided to deprogram me; but I'm afraid that now
they wont let me make any decisions on my own, that they will watch over me like they did
when I was in high school instead of treating me like an adult. Another overwhelming feeling during the initial
stage is that of loneliness. In the cult, one is constantly surrounded by others, rarely
left alone, and is thus over stimulated. Every minute is accounted for and every day is
structured. Each move the individual makes has a significance that is given by God, and
the day-to-day lives of all cultists are suffused with the knowledge that they are
personally serving the Messiah (or the living God or the perfect person). Upon leaving the
cult, time is neither totally structured nor monitored. The state of not being invaded and
not requiring a merging with the cult can be lonely.
Because the ex-cultist's need for dependence is no longer fulfilled, the
focus of the support group is to encourage new relationships in which intimacy can occur
but in which the integrity and sense of self of the individual can be preserved. Those
ex-cultists who find being alone most troublesome have often discovered through
psychotherapy that part of the cult's appeal stemmed from a desire to escape a sense of
loneliness that developed in early childhood. A
grief reaction follows the loss of a way of life and of a leader who promised total
fulfillment. Former cultists often describe feelings of disappointment and sadness because
their dreams of a perfect world have been broken. While
in the cult, they felt as if they were omnipotent as a result of their merging with an
omnipotent leader. The support group helps
them to understand that their sadness is a natural reaction to the loss of this sense of
omnipotence.· The group encourages its members to gain positive feelings from their own
accomplishments rather than from their subjugation to a powerful other. Through the group, members are helped to see their
periods of feeling empty, lost, doubtful, and sad as normal and acceptable rather than as
evidence of their "fallen nature." This acceptance of a wide range of feelings
stands in contrast to the cults' demand that their members must constantly feel good as
evidence of their having achieved a superior state of spirituality. During the search for a perspective that is
different from that of the cult, the former cultists often appear to be submissive and
compliant. They respectfully focus on the words of a speaker. This behavior parallels
their submissiveness in the cult. An example of such behavior occurred in one of the first
meetings, when almost all the group consisted of people who had just left cults. As the group leaders sat down to begin the
meeting, several of the members pulled out pads and pencils as if they were about to hear
a lecture. They hung on to every word. This
behavior made the group leaders feel their tremendous power in relation to the former
cultists. The group leaders shared their feelings with the ex-cultists, who, in turn, were
able to relate their behavior to their experiences with cult leaders. They told the
ex-cultists that they were unable to give them "answers" but would encourage
them to find their own way, relying on their own resources. Finding one's own way means
disagreeing with other views expressed in the group. The group leaders actively encourage
group members to feel free to express differences of opinion. This freedom contrasts
sharply with the conformity paramount in cult groups.
As mentioned earlier, individuals who do not participate in the
deprogramming process after leaving their cults generally have more difficulty placing
their experience into perspective than those who undergo deprogramming. In the former,
behavior characteristic of the first stage can last for several years.
Stage 2: Reemergence
This stage usually begins one to two
months after the deprogramming process and lasts for approximately six months to two
years. It is characterized by reemergence of
the precult personality. Within six months,
most ex-cult members no longer appear to be depleted individuals, that is, their speech,
personality, and physical demeanor become more appropriate for their age. As the ex-cultists regain their self-esteem and a
sense of their abilities, aggressiveness is externalized and released against those who
failed to fulfill their promise of a perfect world. Those who, three months earlier, had
described the cult leader as sincere but misguided now attack him or her as a monster.
During the second stage, there is often a crusade against the cults, a flurry of activity
that may include acting as a deprogrammer or making public-speaking appearances condemning
cults. The group leaders react to this anger
by reminding the group member that nothing is all good or all bad, in contrast to the
duality portrayed by cults. They have found
it helpful to focus on the positive elements of cult life during this stage. For example,
they point out that group members learned that they could push their bodies to the limit
and survive long working hours, that they could influence others in their fund-raising
efforts, and that they could live through the wrenching experiences of cult life and yet
emerge. Seeing the world in shades of grey helps cut into the polarization that cults
reinforce. (Some ex-cult members describe a
tendency to use defensive splitting prior to their involvement with the cult. This
defense, in fact, often led to their easy acceptance of the cult's view of the world.) One
of the major goals during the second stage, then, is to raise the ex-cultists feelings of
self-esteem by helping them to see that life in the cult was not a total waste. During this period, ex-cult members also describe
the testing out of previous "pleasures" that were seen as negative or selfish by
the cult. Guilt about having left the cult dissipates as the hold of the cult diminishes: Alice F, an actress who had ended her involvement
with a cult seven weeks earlier, joined a health spa to shed the twenty pounds that she
had gained while involved with the cult. She
felt tense while in the cult because she had been told that her concern about her figure
was Satanic vanity. After leaving the cult, she began to wear make-up again and decided to
let her hair grow. It had been cut short while she was in the cult. Another area of concern is related to feelings
abut intimacy and authentic relationships with others. The cult encouraged the display of
love for the leader but discouraged other emotional attachments. If one became sexually
aroused by another person in the cult, feelings of shame would emerge. After leaving their
cult, group members often found it difficult to enter into an intimate, fulfilling
relationship without feeling ashamed and selfish. Former
cultists, in describing their feelings,
often learn that their anxiety about sex, which is implicit in intimate relationships, was
a factor that led them to the "safety" of a religious cult. As the ex-cult members emerge from the submissive, passive states that were evident in
the first stage, they sometimes describe conflicts with their parents arising from the
overprotective behavior of their parents. As the former cultists test out their
independence during the second stage, their parents, fearing their reentry into the cult,
may react in an overprotective fashion. Typically,
parents of ex-cultists are concerned about signs indicating that their children may be
thinking about rejoining the cult. It is possible that growing up in an overly protective
environment rendered the young adults vulnerable to a naive acceptance of the cult's
promise of a perfect world. Furthermore, by joining the cult, dependent young adults were
able to escape from their families' anxiety about their initial steps toward independence.
Theories of individual vulnerability, however, must also consider the state of induced pathology and mind control that
the cults manage to achieve. During the
second stage, the ex-cult members shift their focus from integrating their experiences in
their own minds to deciding how to deal with others. Group members often describe their
extended families as treating them as if they were made of porcelain. At family functions,
relatives will gingerly approach the ex-cultists and nervously talk about "safe"
subjects, avoiding any mention of the past few years or months. The group leaders usually
advise the ex-cultists to bring up the subject of their life in the cult as a means of
clearing the air (for example, "I guess you're wondering about my years in the cult
and my deprogramming. Why don't you ask me whatever is on your mind?"). There is
usually a sigh of relief and a flood of questions from the relatives: This kind of
dialogue is almost always necessary before the former cultists can resume their
relationships with their families. Another
problem that confronts ex-cultists during this period is that of dealing with
"missing" years on job applications. Here, again, the group leaders recommend
that the former cultists focus on the skills that they learned in the cult. While involved
with cults, some of the group members ran restaurants, taught children, printed
newspapers, baked cookies and bread, built houses, or cooked for large numbers of people.
All these are marketable skills. If nothing
else, most former cultists have learned that they can work at a given task for fourteen
hours a day, seven days a week.
Stage 3: Integration
This stage usually begins six months
to two years after leaving the cult. At this point, the former cultists have integrated
their cult experience into their lives and no longer require the group's help. They no
longer primarily identify themselves as ex-cultists and have become involved in
relationships that do not revolve around anticult activities, as the following example
demonstrates: Fred B, who had been a member of a bizarre "scientific" cult for three years and who had been deprogrammed
ten months earlier, announced to the group that he was seriously dating a young woman who
had not been involved in a cult. "Before
I met M, I never thought I could be serious about a girl who hadn't been in a cult. I felt
that she wouldn't be able to understand me. M
and I Find other things to talk about, though."
During the third stage, the former cultists are able to become involved in
future-oriented goals rather than in attempts to understand their cult involvement. Most
of them have either reentered school or are working in more traditional jobs than
deprogramming. Individual psychotherapy may be indicated as a tool to help them focus on
the factors in their personalities that made them vulnerable to the cult's manipulations. The former cultists who had completely cut
themselves off from society or who had been involved in one of the more bizarre cults have
the greatest difficulty reentering life outside the cults. Those who continued to use their ego
strengths, often by rising to a position of authority within the cult, are the most
successful in integrating the cultic experiences with their lives in the outside world.
Thus, paradoxical as it may seem, individuals who have been involved in cults for
relatively long periods of time and who have been deprogrammed sometimes have the fewest
problems regaining their ability to function outside the cult.
SUMMARY
The support group proved to be an
excellent medium for helping former cultists readjust to society. The group
provides its members with an opportunity to discuss their cultic involvement with others
who have similar experiences and, by reinforcing healthy self-assertion and interpersonal
relationships, supports them in their effort to overcome the aftereffects of cultic
involvement. The group also provides a network of people who can offer advice and
experience to those individuals who are having difficulty.
This article has delineated three stages of the Post Mind Control syndrome
through which former cultists pass. The first stage is usually marked by blandness,
self-doubt, confusion, and depression. During this stage, the group can be helpful by
supporting the individual's decision to leave and by helping the individual recognize the
lingering aspects of cultic thinking. The second stage is marked by the
reemergence of the precult personality. The
former cultist often feels a need to undo the cultic experience and embarks on a crusade
against the cult. The group helps during this period by accepting differing points of
view. It also calls attention to the entirety of the cult experience. That is, despite the
many negative aspects of cult life, most individuals made some gains and learned some
skills. The final stage is that of integration. Former cultists have now moved on with
their lives and are able to see the cult experience as a temporary diversion from their
life's work. The group's usefulness to the
former cultist has, at this point, waned, and individual psychotherapy is the treatment of
choice for those who still experience the aftereffects of cultic involvement.
NOTES AND REFERENCES
1.
For a discussion of these techniques, see Christopher Edwards, Crazy
for God (Englewood Cliffs, N.J.: Prentice-Hall,1979);
Carroll Stoner and JoAnne Parke, All God's Children (Radnor, Pa.: Chilton Book Co., 1977);
and Ronald Enroth, Youth, Brainwashing and the Extremist Cults (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Zondervan Publishing
House, 1977).
2.
Lita Linger Schwartz and Natalie Isser, "Psychohistorical Perspective
of Involuntary Conversion," Adolescence, 14 (Summer 1979), pp. 351-359.
3.
John Clark, "Destructive Cults: Defined and Held Accountable"
(Mimeographed by the author, 1976), p. 10.
4.
For a discussion of the "thought terminating
cliché," see
Robert Jay Lifton, Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism (New York: W. W. Norton
& Co.,1963), p. 429.
5.
Flo Conway and Jim Siegelman, Snapping: America's Epidemic of Sudden
Personality Change (New York: J. B. Lippincott Co., 1978).
6.
The authors are grateful to Emily
Schachter, associate director of Children's Services,
Rockland County Community Mental Health Center, Pomona, New York,
for this insight.
7.
Clark, op. cit., p. II. 8.
Margaret Singer, "Coming out of the Cults," Psychology Today, 12 (January
1979), p. 79.
